Love their guts: the chat your whānau didn’t know they needed!

Good gut kōrero starts at the table. And it doesn’t have to be awkward.

The family group chat is the easiest place to start. Send one message. See what happens.
This is what normalised gut health conversation looks like in a whānau chat. A bit awkward — and genuinely useful.
9
Kiwis diagnosed with bowel cancer every day
3
of them will die
2 in 3
diagnosed are men
If Dad can talk about the Bristol Stool Chart in the family chat, anyone can bring it up over dinner.
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The Fam 🏡
Dad
Fam, I've hit a new personal best.
Mum
If this is about your 5k run time again, I'm leaving the group.
Dad
Better. A solid Type 4 on the Bristol scale. Minimal wiping. I feel like I'm walking on air.
Mum
TMI, love. 🙄
Uncle Dave
I've been a Type 6 lately. Too many spicy wings?
Liam
What are you all talking about?
Dad
Google Bristol Stool Chart. Welcome to the light, bro 😂

Why this conversation matters

We surveyed 600 New Zealanders about how they really feel about gut health. The numbers speak for themselves.

46%
won't talk to their partner about gut health. Be the other 54%.
70%
won't bring it up with friends or workmates. That's too many people staying silent.
29%
feel awkward talking to their own GP about it. The one person who can actually help.

The more we talk, the sooner we catch things — and the better we all feel. So let's start the kōrero.

Gut Health NZ Public Attitudes and Perceptions Study, Evolved Thinking, March 2026. 600 respondents, random NZ sample.

Start the kōrero

Many of us grow up thinking guts and poo are off‑limits – something you only talk about behind the toilet door. But one small, slightly awkward question could be the thing that gets your whānau talking, noticing changes early, and getting help sooner if something’s not right.

No need to turn dinner into a medical interview. Roll the dice, pick a question, keep it light.

Roll a kōrero starter 🎲
Try one of these at the dinner table
"How's everyone's energy, sleep, and stress at the moment – and does anyone's tummy start complaining when life gets a bit hectic?"
Question 1 of 8
Or browse all questions
Everyday life
01
How's everyone's energy, sleep, and stress at the moment – and does anyone's tummy start complaining when life gets a bit hectic?
02
Are we moving our bodies most days – even just walks, mahi around the house, or chasing after kids – or are our guts sitting on the couch more than we are?
03
What are we mostly drinking in a day – is water easy to reach, or is it mainly fizzy, juice, tea and coffee doing the work?
Feelings & comfort
04
How are people feeling in themselves – mood, worry, overall vibe – and does anyone's gut play up when they're not feeling great?
05
What familiar things help settle your tummy – herbal teas, warm broths, simple meals, or that one comfort food you always go back to?
06
Do the young ones and older family members feel okay talking about their body and their bowel habits, or is it still a bit "we don't go there" at our place?
Support & next steps
07
If something didn't feel right in your puku or your poo, who would you actually talk to first – a doctor, nurse, local health service, or a trusted family member?
08
What's one small, realistic change our whānau could try this month – like an extra veg at dinner, a short walk most days, or keeping water on the bench so we remember to drink it?

Check your family history

Your whānau’s health history matters more than you think

Knowing whether close relatives have had bowel cancer, IBD or other gut conditions can change what screening you need and when. It’s not about worry — it’s about having the right information.

If any of these sound familiar, it’s worth mentioning to your GP:

🧬
Multiple bowel cancers in close whānau — especially before age 50–55
Talk to your GP about earlier bowel screening and whether genetic assessment might help your family.
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A known gene in the family — like Lynch syndrome
Each child of someone with Lynch syndrome has a 50% chance of inheriting the gene. Whānau members should be offered genetic counselling and planned colonoscopies.
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IBD in a parent or sibling — plus your own gut symptoms
Pain, diarrhoea, weight loss or blood in stool alongside a family history of IBD? See your GP early and mention the connection.

Sharing food has always been about more than calories.

Eating together is linked with better mood, stronger relationships and healthier eating patterns across childhood and adulthood.

People who share meals more often tend to feel less lonely, more supported and more satisfied with life.

There’s not much point aiming to live to 100 if you don’t get to enjoy the food, people and moments along the way!

Your gut buddies also seem to enjoy company.

Studies suggest that people with close relationships and shared mealtimes often have more diverse microbiomes – which is usually a good thing. Diversity on the plate (lots of different plants, herbs and spices) helps build diversity in the gut, making it more adaptable and resilient.

Cultural traditions are a big part of this story

From hāngi to Sunday roasts, kai connects us to whakapapa, place and community, and can support wellbeing when we balance celebrations with everyday, mostly whole‑food choices. Exploring each other’s favourite dishes – and trying new foods together – is a simple way to feed both relationships and gut buddies at the same time.

Traditional fermented foods like homemade yogurts, pickles, and sourdoughs contain live microbes (gut buddies) which are shaped by the way your whānau prepares and looks after them.

Does your whānau know about the free bowel screening test?

If your whānau members are aged 58–74, they’re eligible for New Zealand’s free national bowel screening programme. The kit is posted to your home — you take a small poo sample, pop it in the prepaid envelope and send it back. That’s it.

 

1
📬
Kit arrives in the post
No GP visit needed
2
🏠
Take a small poo sample at home
Takes about 5 minutes
3
✉️
Post it back in the prepaid envelope
Completely free
Who is eligible? Anyone aged 60–74 living in New Zealand. The kit is posted automatically — if your whānau member hasn't received one or has misplaced it, they can contact their GP or call Bowel Screening on 0800 924 432.
But here's the thing — a lot of people aren't doing it.
National Bowel Screening Programme participation rates, Oct 2023 – Sept 2025
58.4%
Overall NZ
52.7%
Māori
39.8%
Pacific peoples
needs attention
62.9%
Other communities
Nearly 1 in 2 eligible Māori and more than 3 in 5 eligible Pacific peoples are not completing their free test. A simple kōrero with your whānau — "did you get your kit? have you sent it back?" — could be the nudge that makes all the difference.
Source: National Bowel Screening Programme — 2-year cumulative participation rate, October 2023 to September 2025.

Raise a kid who loves their gut buddies

70% of Kiwis can’t talk about gut health with their mates. Imagine if the next generation didn’t have that problem. It starts at home, with real words. Poo, bottom, bowel. If it’s normal to you, it’ll be normal to them.

Gut health is going to school

We’ve partnered with EATucation to bring gut health into classrooms across Aotearoa, impacting 200+ schools, 600+ teachers, 24,000+ students.

Want to see more of this learning at your kid’s kura? Check out EATucation.

Whānau packs: gut health for the whole family

We’ve teamed up with EATucation to create free take-home packs that bring gut health from the classroom to your kitchen table. Recipes, activities, and te reo kai included.

My Gut Buddies! — Ages 5–7
Meet Biff, Lacy, Bax, and Roz. Berry bark recipe, veggie nuggets, eat the rainbow tracker, and kai connection challenges for little learners.

The Mighty Microbiome — Ages 7–10
Your child becomes the manager of their own microbial city. Rainbow fried rice, mighty berry mug cake, mood food connection, and te reo kai vocabulary.